Testamonials 2 weddingsbyfatherbernard.com

Both Jim and I want to take this opportunity to express our heartfelt gratitude for all you did for us on Saturday. Our wedding ceremony was not only one of the most beautiful services I've ever heard, but it was without question the most meaningful and touching event in my life. I have to be honest with you; I was somewhat cynical about the whole idea of another marriage ceremony and especially the reception. Jim and I are very private people and our first wedding in December was just that - a quiet, civil ceremony with only my eldest sister, her husband and two sons as our witnesses. We never meant to offend anyone and we were both taken aback when we received negative reactions to what we thought was our "happy news". We love our friends and family dearly and it was never our intention to make them feel excluded, but without realizing it we did. That's when we started to talk about a "party", and the whole idea kind of snowballed from there.

I really try to avoid the spotlight at all costs, and the thought of being a traditional "bride" was an intimidating prospect, to say the least! I can't imagine agreeing to go along with it for anyone other than Jim! I truly love him, and I also wanted to respect his father's wishes for a religious ceremony. That was never an issue for me, but we simply didn't realize that the difference in our faiths was going to be an obstacle for some churches. At times I was completely exasperated by the red tape we encountered and wanted to give up altogether. As far as I was concerned, we were already married and if that wasn't good enough, well, that was just too bad!

I believe that things happen for a reason and I believe with all my heart that Jim and I were meant to find you. I browsed a number of websites relating to interfaith marriage and nothing really moved me until I read about you. You were the only priest I contacted. I suppose I should have asked you more questions but somehow I knew it was the right choice. When Jim spoke to you on the phone he agreed, and that was that. I don't think I knew how much all of this truly meant to me until we were facing you this weekend. Your words went straight to my heart, Father Bernard. I wasn't standing up there merely for the sake of appearances or to appease the family; it was something I truly wanted to do. If I had trouble getting the words out it was because I finally understood how sacred they were. It was totally different than our civil ceremony. It took me completely by surprise - I had no idea that it would mean so much to me.

Everyone commented on what a stirring service you performed. From what I can tell, you had a rapt audience! We were all honored by your presence and delighted that you and Paula agreed to join us for dinner. My only regret is that I didn't get to spend more time with the two of you. Four hours flew by in the blink of an eye! It's funny how I anticipated, even dreaded, the approach of the day, and once it was happening I didn't want it to end. It was wonderful to be surrounded by the love of our family and friends, including the two of you.

Thank you for sharing our special day. God bless you both -

Jayne and Jim Murtha

Thank you so very much for all that you and your assistant did to make our wedding the most spectacular day of our lives. The ceremony was absolutely wonderful and your presence and your words made us feel truly blessed that day. You touched not only us but all of our guests and everyone is still talking about how beautiful the ceremony was. We feel so fortunate to have had you unite us in marriage. May your life be as joyful as you have made ours and as we are sure you will continue to make many others.

Michael and Carrie Trezza

Hi Father Bernard,

I just wanted to drop you a "wee" email to say thanks for your lovely ceremony of blessing for our wedding in Central Park.

We both really appreciated your lovely readings and words. It's hard to believe that such an oasis of calm could be created in the middle of New York but everyone present felt that it was a wonderful ceremony. Your little sermon was really meaningful and we are grateful for your time and kindness.

I hope you had a peaceful New Year and that you are richly blessed in 2008!

James and Linda Buick.

Dear Father Bernard & Paula,

We can not say thank you enough for everything. Paula, you have been a pleasure to work with and thank you for coordinating everything perfectly. Father Bernard, the ceremony was absolutely beautiful. Everyone was commenting about your genuine passion and what a beautiful service you performed. Walter and I couldn't have asked for a better ceremony that was filled with such love and spirit.

Our Warmest Regards and Many Thanks,

Colleen & Walter Imbert

Liberty House, NJ March 14, 2008

Dear Paula and Father Bernard,

Nick and I want to thank you for a most beautiful ceremony and taking the time to drive out east and share our special day with us. The good Lord gave us a perfect day in all respects, except for the rings. Sorry about that little mishap. A little miscommunication within the bridal party. I started to get upset and just hearing you speak to us calmed me down and reassured me everything would be fine. Father, your words brought peace and contentment within Nick and I and we both are keeping in mind what marriage and a husband and wife should mean to each of us. We both have alot to be thankful for in life.

Thank you again - God Bless.

Warmest regards,

Kathie and Nick Capparelli

Miller Beach Surf Club September 1, 2007

Dear Father Bernard,

I just wanted to thank you again for such a beautiful service! We've had many guests comment on how much they enjoyed the ceremony. It was truly a precious time for Rob and I, especially considering the current state of my health. I appreciate your words of encouragement and the power of trusting in Jesus more than you know. I hope you both enjoyed the cocktail hour (I heard the food was good, unfortunately I didn't have any time to sample it!

). If you ever need a recommendation or referal to any other brides, don't hesitate to have them contact me. Many thanks....

~Melissa

Rockleigh Country Club, NJ July 27, 2007

Hello Fr. Bernard

My Wife and I would just like to thank you again for your Blessings
during the Ceremony. We were very pleased with the way it proceeded
and could not be any happier. I personally felt that it was the
highlight of the day.

Could you direct us to where we may post
some comments to show others how much we appreciate you.

Sharif Johnson

Leonard's of Great Neck, NY June 21, 2007